Listen here buddy, you are different. Being different doesn’t necessarily mean you’re better than others nor does it mean that others are better than you. The reason for mentioning this is to encourage you to accept yourself the way that you are. Stay true to yourself 🙂
Be your real, authentic self. Don’t be a copy of others. The world is full of writers, doctors, engineers, social workers and so on. Find what you love and do exactly that. Pick up a book; perhaps on leadership and self esteem then learn a new skill; perhaps how to write creatively and how to stay organised then instill within yourself qualities that will benefit your future; patience, resilience, calmness and so on.
To do anything, go anywhere or be anyone, a person needs to discover themselves. When you truly know yourself then no matter anyone says, you’ll know who you are and you’ll do what you think is best. This isn’t to say, you shouldn’t take advise or listen to experts rather you take the good they offer, incorporate it in your plan to execute your goal and move on. The point is that you stay in control of yourself at all times.